Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tips. Show all posts

Friday, October 17, 2008

SIBLING RIVALS

Want your children to grow up as friends?
Try these tips from Parentlineplus.org.uk.

AGE DIFFERENCES mean that siblings will be at different stages of learning. So introduce activity that all age groups can participate in. Encourage older siblings to help the younger ones with an activity, to make older children feel more important.

DON'T RUSH to stop an argument - children sorting out their differences themselves can be a valuable lesson.

DON'T TAKE SIDES. It will make them think you have a favourite.

PRAISE them when they are getting along. Only noticing when they are misbehaving will make them think this is the best way to get your attention.

TEACH them how to cooperate, such as taking turns to play with a particular toy and then swapping.

REMIND
children to talk through problems. If things get too heated, make sure they know how to ask an adult to help resolve the conflict.

ENCOURAGE them to think of others. Ask them how they think their brother or sister is feeling and what they would want if they were in their position, helping them to empathise.

REMAIN CALM. It will remind them that it is not such a big deal and will help them to listen to you.

Simple Tips for the Morning

If u're like many people, the start of the day isn't ur favourite time.
So here are some tips u can sneak into ur routine without much effort.
Try at least one of these tomorrow....

STRETCH EVERY EXTREMITY for 15 seconds. Try this before you open your eyes. Lift ur arm and begin by stretching each finger, then ur hand, then ur wrist, then ur arm. Repeat with the other arm. Then ur toes, feet, ankles and legs. End with a neck and back stretch that propels u out of bed.
U've just limbered up ur muscles and joints, and enhanced the flow of blood through ur body, providing an extra shot of oxygen to all ur tissues.

BRUSH UR TOUNGE for 1 minute. There's no better way to rid urself of morning breath and begin the day minty fresh. Hundreds of bacteria take up residence in ur mouth every night, so just brushing ur teeth alone isn't going to vanquish them all.

DRINK A GLASS OF WATER. Remember, u've been fasting all night long, so u wake each morning dehydrated.

CHECK UR MORNING CALENDAR. Have a large calendar or whiteboard in a prominent position in the kitchen. On it, write everything u need to know for that day. Check it each morning as u sip ur coffee - it will help u avoid the stress of forgetting something important.

KISS ALL THE PEOPLE U LOVE in ur house (including the dog and cat) before u leave. Connecting with the ones u love soothes stress & gives a positive start to ur day...